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林依晨和林于超结婚6年，日前接受杂志访问时透露，起初对老公完全没心动感，直到某次一起当伴郎伴娘，才发现他的细心，结婚多年，林依晨认为婚姻最重要的就是为对方着想，希望对方快乐，也因为有这样的信念，他们夫妻俩从没吵过架。

林依晨说，“我们早在15、16岁时就知道彼此的存在，因为有共同的朋友，甚至常常被故意撮合坐在一起吃饭，但当时我们对彼此，就是没有感觉。”

直到后来被指定做伴郎和伴娘，经过长时间相处，一起讨论婚礼细节，林依晨才发现他的贴心和细心。

但婚姻的现实也带来考验，林依晨认为，只要通过考验，婚烟就会“镀上一层金”，让彼此感情更加深厚，“所以对我来说，婚姻最重要的，真的就是双方都愿意为彼此着想，希望对方快乐，如果因为对方快乐你也会感到快乐的话，那么你们就会愿意努力共同想出解决的方法。”

也因如此，他们从没吵过架，“可能因为我们本来的价值观就很像，理性的时候都很理性，感性时也都很感性，彼此的价值观都很相似，这样的相处方式，我觉得才是最容易长久的婚姻之道。”

出处：ETtoday星光云