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说到农历新年，越南人其实也很重视这个节日。在越南北部河江省生活的赫蒙族少数民族，农历新年期间有“拍屁股选配偶”习俗。

赫蒙族人认为，新年是万物复苏的开始，此时是男女喜迎新年以及谈情说爱的好日子。每逢新年，赫蒙族男女都会身穿五颜六色民族服装，齐聚县中心地带，一起玩扔沙包、拔河、抢球与对情歌等传统民间游戏。

不过，其中最独特的活动就是“拍屁股选配偶”，一批赫蒙族年轻男女，一边玩一边互致新春祝福。男子先用眼睛发出“爱情信号”，女子若对对方有意思，也用眼睛暗示同意，他们就这样眉来眼去。

若男子这时轻轻拍一下女子的屁股，跟她说甜言蜜语，女子也轻轻回拍一下男子屁股，表示接受对方表白。不过，屁股不是乱拍的。男女双方通常早已认识并相爱。参加这项习俗在公众场合示爱，是要让众人见证他们的爱情。

在众人见证下，一对男女要互相拍打对方的屁股9次才会得到正式认可，他们两人随后手牵着手一起离开，找个地方继续谈情说爱。二人之后会找媒人，并成亲结为夫妻。

对赫蒙族人来说，拍屁股示爱不仅是春天的娱乐活动，也是一个独特习俗，体现赫蒙族人质朴的传统文化特色。