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每个新娘都希望自己是婚礼中最漂亮的焦点，来参与婚礼的宾客通常也都明白这点，所以不太会过度打扮，以免抢走锋头。但美国一名新娘似乎对此太过不安，竟直接传讯息要求自己的伴娘在婚礼当天“素颜出席”。

根据《每日邮报》报道，近日有人将美国一名伴娘与新娘的对话分享至脸书社团《That’s It, I’m Wedding Shaming》中，新娘主动传了讯息给她的伴娘，询问她是否可以帮自己一个忙，接下来便问对方：“你可不要化妆来参加婚礼吗？”。

这个要求让伴娘听了有些傻眼，反问她：“为什么？不是每个参加的人都会打扮吗？”，没想到新娘却回：“对啊，但我不希望你抢走我的风采”，随后甚至更要求她“连头发都不要弄”。

对话曝光后，许多网民都对于新娘无理的要求感到非常傻眼，纷纷留言：“新娘的不安也太明显了！”、“天啊！婚礼不是选美比赛，而是你和另一半相互承诺后半生的庆祝会”；但也有人反向思考，认为伴娘可以将这样的要求视作一种赞美：“如果有人传这种讯息给我，我会对他们感到抱歉，同时又在心里暗爽”、“这是一种反向赞美吧哈哈哈”。