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中国上海市一名秦姓男子11月12日在微博爆料，先前第一次到女朋友家中见父母，带了人民币239元(141令吉)的大白菜礼盒当作见面礼，岂料，女朋友的父亲觉得他太小气，逼女儿跟他分手。

女方也觉得父亲的话很有道理，结束1年的感情，令秦男十分傻眼。女方父亲提及，男方很是小气。

从事金融业的秦男透露，自己与女朋友交往1年，感情稳定，前些日子还讨论到结婚事宜，因此计划到女方东北老家拜访家长，岂料却被对方家长嫌小气。

他表示，大白菜礼盒包括5公斤大白菜、山东大葱、萝卜等食物，认为这样比较贴近对方的生活。

不料见面结束后，女朋友的态度突然改变，秦男好奇询问，“妳是不是不舒服？”女方则不满地回应，“对，我浑身都不舒服，我爸说你太抠（小气）了。”

女方还提到，东北人买大白菜都是一车一车买，“你给我几斤大白菜，干啥用？喂鸡吗？” 文章曝光后，马上引起热议。