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（北京27日讯）中国女星吴昕在《我家那闺女》中，剖析大龄女子面对爱情、婚姻、父母期待的种种压力，她流着泪提到过去曾有一段破碎的恋情，从那次起她自认很失败，没有办法面对父母，因此宁愿住在酒店也不敢回家住，有网友“考古”翻出她口中的“恋情”，疑似是遇到恐怖情人。

吴昕自认因为一段不完美的恋情，似乎连带影响到父母，她哭着说：“我给我爸我妈闯了很大的祸。”而父母也担心她是不是因为有了不好的经历，导致不敢再开始新的恋爱，无形之间施加了压力在她身上，亲子间在想法上有落差，她看着爸妈担心的眼神，越来越不知道该如何面对，最后在长达1年间选择逃避。

网友从言谈间找到吴昕口中这段逝去的恋情，男方疑似是个圈外人，却想方设法骗了她不少钱，分手之后更威胁要泄漏她的隐私，甚至跟踪了大半年，每天都用电话或是文字骚扰，严重的时候她的经纪公司得派保镳保护，过了好久才终于把恐怖前男友甩开。

以爸妈的立场来说，担心将满36岁仍孤家寡人的吴昕是“破罐子破摔”，因为有过不好的经历，从此一蹶不振，但她认为自己没有因此对爱情却步，只是还在摸索中。

出处：ETtoday星光云