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文/ 郭灵

上帝给人们两只耳朵一张嘴，其实就是要我们多听少说。学会摘取别人思想中的精华，学会倾听，我们才能发现自己的缺点，进而加以改正。要学会倾听，我们才会少走弯路。

就连苹果公司创始人约伯斯，倾听了好友巴菲特的建议，将多屏操控技术与知名数码公司共用而没有一意孤行，自己探索。这一举措使他少走了弯路，成功在的在数码市场上夺得一席之地。倘若约伯斯不倾听菲特的建议，只知一味蛮干，并不采纳他人的建议，也许如今他只是一个无名小卒，苹果公司又怎能有如此功绩呢？

另一方面，倾听是一种姿态是一种美德，即使倾听的声音有时十分刺耳，我们也应该做到“有则改之，无则加勉”，报以良好的心态去面对自己的不足，这样才会获得成长和磨练。在沟通的过程中，倾听能够获得对方内心真正的想法。倾听使我们可以知己知彼，百战百胜。让你的学业、事业与前途会少走弯路。

同时要学会倾听，才不会被一时的情绪冲昏了头，螳臂当车的故事大家都应该听过吧？螳螂自以为是，觉得自己在草丛里无人能敌便不顾，朋友的劝告竟不自量力地与大马车相抗衡，最终落了个粉身碎骨而又遭人嘲笑的下场。这故事告诫我们，如果它能静下心来倾听别人的话并加以采纳，它就不会是这样的结局了。

此外，倾听会带给你一种快乐，更是种享受。

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