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文:陈雪莹
前一阵子,上司在我们耳边碎碎念,她仍记恨母亲重男轻女,尤其特别宠爱最小的弟弟的做法。
她说,小时候,身为女儿的她每天有做不完的家务,甚至要帮忙种菜等等。她变得节俭,因为深懂钱不易賺。长大后,母亲把家里大多数的家产分配给儿子们,并且把她们小时候辛苦耕种的田地给了最小的弟弟还赌债,母亲甚至要求她们兄弟姐妹帮忙弟弟分担债务。母亲的这一切举动,都让她耿耿于怀,对母亲心生不满。
即使她的母亲现在年事已高,而她身处的地方,距离家乡不到一个小时车程,她也不常回家探望。上个月,她的母亲来她家小住几天,她也不请假在家陪伴母亲,她认为提早回家带母亲出外用餐,且之前添满雪柜里的蔬果已尽了本分。
一天,她中午拨电话回家后,告诉我们母亲只煮了快熟面当午餐。她看似不以为然,然而我听在耳里,却不由得对她的母亲心生怜惜,觉得心酸。
母亲是十月怀胎把我们辛苦生下来的人,即使对她有再多的不满,事过多年,大家都有年纪了,何苦记恨于她。妈妈在一年多前离开了我,我已不能孝顺她、听她唠叨,我多么希望妈妈还在我身边。但过往我对妈妈不礼貌的态度和行为,如今已经无法弥补。
听到上司埋怨她母亲的话语,我和同事试图劝她放下心结,多花时间陪伴母亲。然而,怨恨似乎早已深植在她心里,我们说的话她充耳不闻,还给了不少藉口解释她的做法是合理的。
其实,上司怎么对待她的母亲和我们并没有关系,我们似乎多管闲事了。对我而言,这是活生生的例子,是一个很好的借镜,提醒我不该跟上她的脚步,不该记恨于家人。然而,家家有本难念的经,外人怎能诸多意见呢?事不关己,我还是尽自己的本分就好了。
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