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文：吴荣顺

要成为优先是许多人的最要。追求优先不是恶事。以优先之名，踩低他人最可恶。优自己之先，消费他人。

像美国人优先。就把优先的意义发挥得淋漓尽致。

即使没有标榜优先，态度也会显示处处要求优先。

而我们最近听到的是马来人优先的口号。

为何不是大马人优先？

为何放弃多元和开放思想的优先？

答案在追求获胜优先。

优先可以是进取。

但是优先有时候也会显示高高在上的傲慢姿态。

追求优先的基础是优秀。

优先不单是争取的问题而已。优先是他人乐意给以的尊重，比如女士优先，儿童优先。

如果没有需要，还是争取优先，只是劣质的表现。

没有优秀，单单谈优先，要求优先，显示的是低劣的身态。

近水楼台先得月，向阳花木易逢春。思想向阳，谈优先是可取的；思想低劣，谈优先则是可怕的。