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文：易雄

走在路上，虽不全是美景

但许多时候也尽如人意。

那一晚，我们在“悦为食”吃饱后，马上移师到“五条路咖啡馆”Macallum Connoisseurs Cafe 续摊，两个大男人一个老胖子聊生活和近况谈家庭，就是没说到近在眉心的余生如何过……

都说了人到中年聊得更多是回忆和往事，某某人早已退休过著含饴弄孙的日子、谁又早没混报界了、最好的是某人当大老板等等，最怕听见的是老朋友还没挥一挥衣袖已走了……

但这又奈何，人生最美好的我想应该是活著的时候开心过日子，其他事情想多也无益还不如快乐当下。

许多人明明可以乐活但他却选择“为难”自己，有能力过好一些也找出大堆理由、让别人看起来可怜兮兮，这又何苦呢？

我们仨认识16年从同事变成朋友，同住一座城市好几年都没碰上，这一见聊得特别舒服像兄弟般情谊，你不怕我知道家家有本难念的经、我也不担心你知道我的私隐。

难得最忙的发哥说要见面还请吃吃喝喝， 大家都放开说，谁也不知道下一次几时再见面。

晚上十点多互道珍重，我们没有醉因为喝的全是咖啡和奶茶，但仨人都没有说出下次几时会再见，我想保留当下的欢喜和愉悦就好。

记住36、38、52，至于几时再见已不重要……

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