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尽孝,不只是在清明

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日前到儿子的学校办点事,刚好遇上周会,我听校长对学生们说,清明是一个慎终追远的节日,是后辈对故人表达孝心和思念的季节。所以后辈在扫墓时,也带上丰富的祭品供奉故人。

校长话锋一转,说我们带这么多祭品给祖先享用,他们真正享受到吗?没有人可以告诉我们,所以,倒不如趁长辈们还在世时,我们好好地孝顺父母。我认为这位校长说得非常对。

从小到大,一路走来,我们都是在父母和长辈的庇护下长大,即使我们出来工作,甚至结婚后,在父母眼中,我们还是小孩子。有道是:养儿一百岁,长忧九十九,这就是父母的心声。

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清明,是华人一个非常重要的日子,提醒我们要尽孝心,可是,如果我们能趁父母尚健在时,好好地孝敬他们,不是更有意义吗?遗憾的是,如今许多年轻人只想追求自由和独立,一离开父母,就如脱缰之马,只懂得往前奔,不懂得回头看。

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想一想你多久没回家乡探望父母?想一想你多久没替父母庆祝生日?甚至是最简单的打通电话,你是多久没向父母请安,问候一下他们最近过得怎样,有没有照顾好身体?其实,为人父母者也不图这些,他们最想听到的,是你在异地生活很好,要他们不要担心。

各位在异地生活的子女,当你们渐渐长大,父母却无声无息地步向衰老。与其等他们不在了,你在清明时烧多多供品给他们,买丰盛的食物来祭拜他们;倒不如趁他们还在世时,多回乡看一看他们,多打电话问候他们。莫要等到子欲养而亲不在,才来遗憾和后悔!

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