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文:米乐
前几天晨跑遇见一位朋友,当时我们俩就谈谈理想、叙叙旧,后来不知怎的,她娓娓道来一些过往的伤痛。
“米乐啊,你知道我为什么这么拼博吗?因为我害怕失败,只要我觉得岌岌可危,我就丝毫没有安全感。刚出生的时候,因为是最小的孩子,父母当我是掌上明珠,给我很多很多的爱,对我呵护备至,对我无限关怀。可他们不知道,给我越多的爱,就好像喂了我越多的毒药。我姐姐把父母给予我的一切关爱,归咎为我不择手段博取同情的证据。”
“姐姐认为,我的出现,害得她失去所有。父母越疼我,她越想弄疼我。父母越爱我,她越想伤害我。她鞭我的手,扭我的发,捏我的脸,我却不可以吭声。我莫名其妙,委屈地告诉父母,他们就采取了严厉的惩罚。可他们不知,他们的惩罚越重,打在我身上的拳头也越重。我以为沉默可以让我逃过一劫,可惜只能助长姐姐的变本加厉。我甚至恨我父母无法保护我,恨他们的爱不实际,恨他们把我带来这个世界受罪。”
于是,我拼命学习、拼命锻炼,希望我的体能和智力都高人一等,不再遭人唾弃。可过程中总会有挫折,我受不了挫折,我害怕跌倒,害怕有朝一日我落魄,害怕我无人问津,害怕我成了别人脚下的奴隶。”
我摇头对她说:“这个世界不会因为你的失败而鄙视你。你努力了,就只有等待时间给你答案,即使着急也于事无补,何必如此执着?”
她擦干泪痕,接着说:“有时候不是我不要,而是我做不到。我把我心里的这道疤告诉父母,他们跟我说‘我们也是在学习如何当父母,以前的不当,是我们的错,但是我们真的努力了。’我还能怪他们吗?怪他们教育不当?怪他们太过爱我?还是要怪罪于我渴望爱的姐姐?怪罪于她的无知与心理不平衡?”
她看着升起的朝阳,眼泪簌簌,唉声叹气。
而我,作为一个局外人,没有资格评论。这种现象在许多家庭其实很普遍。我只能期盼,天下父母能够多花些时间聆听小孩的感受,而不是一味的溺爱、宠爱,最后造成伤害。
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